"I hope the ‘skills’ needed to support a wife include a trade and/or decent job!
Without this, a guy can’t even hope to support himself - much less a wife and any children that may follow."
A decent job, paying the bills and supplying enough food,
Being there for moral support when having a bad day, someone to pick you up when your down.
These are some of the things that the Borg overlooks when talking about marriage material like they're not important enough.
Nah, being a ministerial servant, congregational assignments & cleaning the KH trumps all these vital attributes,